The Book of Hope for Sinners

Book Of Hope

The Book of Hope for Sinners

Islamic Self Help is excited to announce the latest book from Shaykh Ismail Kamdar: ‘The Book of Hope for Sinners’. 

The Book Of Hope For Sinners is a compilation of Quranic verses and Hadiths (with commentary) focused on inspiring hope and transformation for those who have fallen into sin.

Book Description

Every human sins, but Islam shows us a way back regardless of how severe or many our sins are.

Every human sins, and God accepts the repentance for all sins. This beautiful book was written to inspire every sinner to hope in God’s Mercy, seek His Forgiveness, and work towards spiritual transformation. 

In this book you will find various verses of the Quran and narrations from Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) aimed at inspiring the soul to have hope in God’s Mercy and Repent. 

Islam is the religion of hope and mercy, and this book was written to help sinners experience that hope and mercy once again.

About The Author

Shaykh Ismail Kamdar is a graduate of a traditional Alim program and also holds a Bachelors in Islamic Studies. He has studied Islam in both tradition and modern settings and has been a student of Islamic Studies for almost two decades.

He began studying Islam full-time at the age of thirteen, began preaching at the age of sixteen, and wrote his first book at the age of twenty-three. Over the years, he has taught multiple courses and seminars around the world, and has worked with multiple leading Islamic organizations across the globe.

He currently works from home freelancing for various organizations and companies, while homeschooling his children and writing books. He hopes to inspire the ummah to return to their former glory and become a role model for the world once again.

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Powerful Time Management Systems for Busy Career Muslims

Guest Post By Dr. Aimen Of The Muslim Youth Programme

Powerful Time Management Systems for Busy Career Muslims

Busy Muslims

“I can’t manage my time as well as other successful Muslims do”.

“I’m busier than most people”.

“I’ve tried to follow some time management tips. I even downloaded top productivity apps but nothing seems to work for long!”

Would you agree with any of the statements above? This is real stuff that real Muslims have said to me.

We all like to think of ourselves as special unicorns when it comes to time management, but the reality is almost ALL of us can relate to the statements above.

So how come some Muslims seem to get a ginormous amount of work done and still manage to spend quality time with family yet the rest of us struggle to just get through the day?

Here’s the harsh truth:

  1. All of us have the same amount of hours in a day. But only some of us manage our time really well.
  2. You can download ALL the productivity apps in the world and learn every tactic in the book, but if you don’t make these basic changes in your life, you’ll never be able to manage your time. That’s how harsh the reality is.

What basic changes am I talking about? And how can I say this with such confidence? Read on to find out.

THE BROAD-TO-NARROW APPROACH:

When it comes to time management, approach it with a broad-to-narrow mindset.

The broadest area that needs to be managed first covers all your fundamentals.

Fundamentals include sleep, environment, workplace, diet etc. If you fail to optimize your environment for productivity, nothing else matters. The funny thing is, most of us ignore this saying that it’s the same old advice we hear from our grandmothers. Well, turns out our grandmas are most definitely right.

That’s precisely why if you think an app will help you manage your time, you have already lost.

Only AFTER you have optimized your environment (home as well as work), should you start focusing on other things like motivation, discipline, eliminating time-wasters, planning, delegating tasks etc.

 

COVERING THE BASICS: 4 ridiculously simple fundamentals we all know but don’t follow

If you get these straight, you are way ahead of 90% of Muslims struggling with time management.

# 1: 7-8 Hours of sleep. Every. Night.

Sounds like boring advice right? Maybe you’re nodding and saying “yeah I get it”. But very few of you are actually going to take it seriously and fix your sleeping routine.

Today, sleep is seen as some kind of weakness. People who sleep less than 7 hours and work more are identified as productivity gurus. The truth is less sleep makes you physically weak and mentally unfocused.

According to the teachings of our Prophet (S.A.W) sleep holds a HUGE place in the productivity matrix. Prophet (S.A.W) gave detailed guidelines covering the importance of sleeping early, duration of sleep, the manners of sleeping, mid-day naps, sleep position etc. So consider sleep as a blessing from Allah.

And among his signs is your sleep by night and by day and your seeking of His bounty, verily in that are Signs for those who hearken” 

[Quran, Surah Rum 30: Ayah 23]

If we don’t fix this fundamental part of our life following guidelines from Sunnah, we just can’t expect to be productive Muslims.  Also, once you get in the habit of sleeping 7-8 hours each night, the remaining parts of this time management system will become way easier.

# 2: Get yourself, your room and your work-place organized.

Let me tell you a weird thing I do. I clear my head a minimum of 7 times a day. I know- C.R.A.Z.Y. But. It helps declutter my mind and keeps me focused while working.

Do you have to be as weird as me to be productive? Absolutely not. Then how does this translate for you?

Do whatever floats your boat to declutter your mind, your work/ study space, your room etc. (Don’t go overboard and start decluttering your entire neighborhood :D).

The habit of decluttering will save you HOURS each day. It will also save you from unnecessary stress and overwhelm you feel because of a messy environment. Remember, overwhelm is one of the biggest killers of productivity.

Here are a few ways you can declutter your mind:

  • If you are a worrywart and tend to overthink things a lot, set aside 15 minutes of your time to just worry. As you catch yourself worrying during any other time of the day, remind yourself that it’s not time to worry yet. When it’s time to worry, sit down and worry. But this way, you won’t allow your regular worries to take over your entire
  • Talk to yourself. Out LOUD. It’s insanely effective. Whenever you are feeling overwhelmed and are overthinking things, step outside where nobody can hear you and say all the thoughts that are bothering you out loud. It will free up space inside your brain and you will come back to work feeling strangely relieved. This is what I personally do every day to declutter my mind.
  • If you are a Journal-lover, then keep a plain/ bullet journal where you can create mind-maps of your thoughts to organize them. I create mind-maps before working on complicated projects.

Here are a few ways you can declutter your work zone by removing distractions:

  • Remove all unnecessary objects from your work space (extra books that you won’t be reading that day, magazines, rough papers etc.)
  • Put your phone, iPad and all unnecessary gadgets away (or on flight mode) while working.
  • Close all extra tabs on your laptop.
  • If you have a stay-at-home job, create a separate area for work (that’s NOT your bedroom).
  • Stick daily reminders of the most important tasks for the day on your notice board (if you don’t have it, DIY it) or table using sticky notes.
  • Decide what piles of paper and stationery goes in the drawers and what stays on your desk.
  • Designate different drawers for particular things such as older files/ books, stationery, paper cups etc.
  • Make a habit of decluttering your work table at the end of every workday.

# 3: Your DAILY schedule and routine matters the MOST.

Do you follow routines? If you don’t, you better start now.

If you believe that you can manage your time most efficiently without a productive morning (and night) routine, think again.

Have you ever wondered why Allah S.W.T made 5 prayers on fixed times every day obligatory upon us?

One of the many reasons could be that this Fard (obligatory) act of Ibadah teaches us the importance of regularity and consistency.

Knowing when you’ll sleep and wake up each day is one of the most important fundamentals of time management.

Want to take your productivity a step forward? Create a morning routine according to the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (S.A.W). Stay awake after Fajr prayer, read Quran, make dua, exercise, plan your day and pray Salah-tul-Duha before you go to work.

A productive morning routine will add the special power ingredient to your time: Barakah.

# 4: Be mindful of the people you surround yourself with.

Think about the people you interact with regularly. Do you let them steal your time (unintentionally) with idle talk?

While we are too busy focusing on productivity apps and cool time management techniques, we forget to notice the amount of time we waste being in the company of slackers.

Stay away from slackers who waste time talking.

The Prophet SAW said: “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him say what is good or remain silent.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

Avoid being in the company of idle people at your workplace or college because you’ll not only waste time that way but also lose Barakah from your day, not to mention become prone to gossiping or backbiting.

Instead, try and surround yourself with productive Muslims who value time. I assure you that you’ll feel the difference in your energy levels as well as the number of tasks you’ll be able to accomplish on such days.

Now that we’ve covered our basics, let me introduce you to the concept of creating planning SYSTEMS in your life that will save you countless hours each week.

 

Creating Weekly and Daily Planning Systems

 

Here’s the way I see things: Weekly and daily plans are essential for maximizing productivity.

Set up your planning system once and you’re done forever. From that point on, all you have to do is follow it.

For busy career Muslims, I can understand how difficult it is to follow plans. But trust me when I say this: Efficient plans should make things easier for you not harder.

If you can never manage to follow your plan then I’m going to be honest with you and say that you’re probably doing something wrong while planning. And that’s fine. Because today I want to give you a clear outline you can follow while creating a realistic plan that will push you to take action and save you time that you waste while trying to figure out where to start.

Here are 4 simple rules you can follow when planning your day:

  1. Plan your day ideally the night before or early morning as a part of your morning routine.
  2. Keep only 3 MITs (most important tasks) for a day. If you keep anywhere between 1 to 3 tasks on your daily planner, you’ll feel less overwhelmed, will be able to actually complete them and will feel more satisfied with yourself at the end of the day.
  3. Follow a task execution system to complete your tasks. I personally use the Pomodoro technique. Other methods include time-blocking, 80/20 rule
  4. Spend 5min on self-evaluation and review at the end of the day. Take note of how many tasks you managed to complete. If you’re consistently unable to complete 3 major tasks per day, figure out the cause and remove it. (Causes could be wasting time on social media, overloading your day with more than you can get done, procrastination, spending too much time on one task etc.)

The next challenge that undoubtedly all of us face are emotional barriers of one kind or another.

Facing the Psychological and Emotional Barriers to Productivity

Here are a few of the common emotional barriers (there are plenty others) that stand in the way of our productivity.

  • Motivation
  • Consistency
  • Procrastination
  • Setting boundaries

No quick 10-second tactic will help you get through this stage and if you can’t move past it, no technique/ app can help you be productive in the long-term. Yes, it’s hard. But only you can do it.

With that said, I want to show you simple ways in which you can tackle each of these barriers.

  1. The biggest source of motivation is within yourself.

We are all waiting for that motivation-pill that will solve everything for us within seconds. It doesn’t exist.

The strongest motivation is that which comes from within. Don’t wait for someone around you to motivate you to do things you need to do.

Why do you need motivation anyway? To achieve your goals. Your goals could be anything, for e.g., losing 10 pounds of weight, studying Tafseer of the Quran, completing a work-related project etc.

The best way to find that motivation within self is by setting up systems to work on your goals. Create planning systems that make large long-term goals so easy to achieve that you can get up and work even on low motivation days.

Also, make sure you schedule all the tasks you need to do, in order to achieve your goals, in your monthly calendar. Setting up your schedule will ensure you cover each task in a systemic way.

You should think of motivation as a type of energy. Just like with other types of energy, the motivational energy stores get depleted over the course of your day. So, you can prevent burnouts by giving frequent breaks to both; your body and your mind.

  1. Build goal-oriented habits for consistency.

When you learn how to motivate yourself every day to work on your big goals, consistency becomes a no-brainer.

All you need to do is set up goal-oriented daily habits that are easy to maintain and you’re good.

For e.g. if your large goal at the moment is writing a book, you could dedicate an hour or two early morning (or whenever you are most creative) every day to write a few hundred words. You could fix a time in your daily schedule for that one task and focus only on that particular task.

Would it be right to say you’ll be consistent if you are working on your goal every day even if for a few hours? I’d say so. Those couple hours every day will add up over weeks and before you know it, you’ll be standing at the finish line.

But that’s not what most of us do right? We get excited over a new goal we’ve set for ourselves and jump right into it. In a matter of days, we get burnt out and leave it altogether, saying to ourselves “I don’t have time for this. I’ll work on it when I get some time.” Does that time ever come? Of course not.

That’s why setting up small goal-oriented habits is the key to consistency.

  1. Procrastination kills time and gets you nowhere.

Narrated by Uqba bin Al-Harith: Once the Prophet (S.A.W) offered the Asr prayer and then hurriedly went to his house and returned immediately. I (or somebody else) asked him (as to what was the matter) and he said, “I left at home a piece of gold which was from the charity and I disliked to let it remain a night in my house, so I got it distributed.” [Sahih Bukhari]

Here’s what we can take away from this Hadith: You have a task you need to do? Get up and do it immediately or else Shaiytan will convince you “you don’t need to do it now”. Over time he’ll convince you that “you don’t need to it at all”.

You don’t want to be in that position where you’re hosting a constant war within self just to get that task done.

It is much easier to just get up and do the task than fight a battle within yourself that will most likely end up with you doing the task anyway but also wasting plenty of precious time in the process.

  1. Setting boundaries, outsourcing and delegating.

So many times when I hear someone say they’re overwhelmed, I find out that they don’t know how to set boundaries. As a working Muslim or student, you need to set clear boundaries. If you don’t, you will get pulled in a hundred different directions and feel constantly overwhelmed.

Another common problem we all face is outsourcing our tasks to others. Let me give you a 2-min solution for deciding which task to delegate.

So before you decide to work on a time-consuming task, put that task in a funnel. Ask yourself 2 questions:

  1. Do you need to do this task now? This short question will help you eliminate unnecessary tasks and decide which ones are urgent (need your immediate attention) and which ones can wait for later.
  2. Would it make sense to delegate the task that might take you longer than it would take someone else (because of the lack of your expertise in that area)? I think it would.

For example, if you’re a writer and you don’t know much about designing a book cover, find someone else who does (a graphic designer) rather than spending hours trying to do it yourself.

Another way to delegate tasks is by teaching someone else, who might be interested, to do the things you already know how to do but don’t want to spend time actually doing them.

Winding up, this approach is probably different from the time management tactics you read everywhere.

Yes, I agree it’s more challenging to follow a system that forces you to step out of your comfort zone, face your psychology and take action because we all want quick 1 min solutions to our problems. But trust me, once you follow this system you’ll no longer have to rely on others motivating you.

You’ll learn how to plan, execute tasks, control your environment, achieve big goals slowly but surely, and set boundaries.

Set up these systems once and you’re finished, as compared to other Muslims who spend their entire lives wondering why they aren’t productive and able to manage time as well as other successful Muslims do.

Now I’m curious. Tell me one thing you do to manage your time as a busy career Muslim. Let’s talk in the comments section below!

AUTHOR BIO: Aimen is a Medical Doctor and the founder of Muslim Youth Programme. She teaches self-development to young Muslims struggling with the fitnah of this century. Her aim is to educate and empower Muslims with practical advice on self-development, productivity, studies and health, with insights on Islamic psychology. Jumpstart your productivity and take action on your goals by signing up to her latest FREE productivity Bootcamp for Muslims.

Posted by Ismail Kamdar in Time Management

How To Set Up An Online Business On The Side

Online BusinessHow To Set Up An Online Business On The Side

We may be living in the best time ever to start a small side business with very little capital. The inventions of the internet, social media, and online marketplaces have made the start-up costs and running costs of many businesses very low. This creates a unique opportunity for anybody interested in starting an online business on the side.

I started my first online business in 2015, which is this very website Islamic Self Help. Currently, I work two online jobs while running two online businesses. Both of which are very successful. Over the past few years, I have discovered many ways to build an online business which requires very little capital but produces a steady flow of profit.

In this article, I will share with you a few tips on getting started with your first online business.

1. Look at businesses with low costs

This includes businesses that offer digital products (like my eBook and online course business), or which provide services (like my freelance writing business). If you can find something you like which has low costs, you can set it up quickly, and start producing a profit even faster. Look into fields with low overhead, and high profit margins. These are the best fields to start your first online business in.

2. Get a website

For most online businesses, a website is necessary. A website gives you a base of operations. It allows you a place to list your products, interact with customers and be discovered by new customers. Decide on a name, buy the domain, and start setting up your website. This is were you will list your products or services, and operate from.

3. Gain a social media presence

Your social media presence is how people get to know you and your business. It is true that some people may discover you with a Google Search. And others may learn of you through word of mouth.

But in the modern era, social media is the fastest way to grow and gain new customers. Set up your social media pages, link them to your website and start growing your pages through beneficial content.

Quick tip: Focus on organic growth, and avoid buying social media followers.

4. Set business goals and work towards them

It isn’t enough to set up your website and social media page, and hope people will come. You need to work constantly at growing your business. Begin each month by setting your goals for the month, then dedicate an hour or two a day to work towards these goals.

The goals could be launching a new product, gaining a certain number of leads, hitting a sales quota or putting out beneficial content. Set your goals and work towards them. For most online businesses, you just need an hour a day to make it work.

5. Invest in your own mind

Since 2013, I have invested thousands of dollars into studying entrepreneurship, online business, marketing, sales, and many other skills that were necessary to grow my business. If you want to succeed in the online marketplace, then you need to start with investing in yourself. In our online course department, we offer a variety of online courses that can assist you in gaining the necessary skills to succeed online.

6. Don’t give up

Online businesses may be cheap to set up and get rolling. But they take time and effort to grow into something truly great. Do not give up. You will have good months and bad months. Focus on learning, experimenting, growing, and gradual progress. After a few years, you will find yourself enjoying a much higher quality of life thanks to your online business.

Summary of Tips:

  1. Choose a business with low overhead
  2. Set up your website
  3. Grow your social media presence
  4. Work towards monthly business goals
  5. Invest in your own education
  6. Never give up

If you want to learn more about setting up an online business,
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The course is available at a ridiculously steep discount if you use this link.
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Posted by Ismail Kamdar in Business

Unedited Thoughts #5: Privilege is from Allah

Privilege is from Allah

Privilege is from Allah

A new trend that popped up in recent times is complaining about privilege. Young people have taken to complaining about the privilege that others enjoy because of their gender, race, beauty, intelligence, or background. Muslims seem to have jumped on this bandwagon too. (Of course, they have. They want to follow the disbelievers into the lizard hole)

Now SOME of these complaints are legit, but many come across as whiny and petty. Complaining that someone else is pretty or handsome, so they are privileged is petty. Complaining about someone else being more intelligent than you and using that to get ahead in their career is petty. But it is more than just pettiness that is a problem here for Muslims.

A Violation Of Islamic Fundamentals

This attitude of complaining about someone else’s privilege is flat out unislamic and violates four key principles of Islam:

  1. Accepting one’s destiny (Qadar)
  2. Understanding that all Rizq is from Allah i.e. each person is given by Allah what Allah believes is best for them
  3. Being content with what Rizq Allah has given you
  4. Avoiding jealousy for the Rizq Allah has given to others

Again, I am not talking about every complaint of privilege. Some are legit. For example, complaining about white privilege in a clearly racist society is understandable. (Understandable but still not the best course of action) However, complaining that wealthy people being privileged is against the above four principles of Islam.

A religion of action, not complaining

Islam does not encourage complaining and whining. The modern attitude of complaining about every little thing on Twitter is unislamic and doesn’t solve any problem. Islam is a religion of action.

Simply put: life is a test. Allah puts us in situations to test how we will deal with these situations. Complaining about Allah putting you in the situation is unislamic. Finding a solution and working towards it is Islamic.

Example: Yes, a wealthy person has several privileges that a less well-off person does not have. They also have tests from Allah that you do not have. He has his test in life, and you have yours. Focus on passing your test, instead of complaining about the cards you have been handed.

Privilege is part of Rizq

Rizq is not limited to money. Whatever Allah has given his Creation is called Rizq. And Allah has purposely distributed each gift unequally, as each human has a unique life, unique test, and unique gift. It is unequal, yet just. Because Allah is Most Just and He knows what is best for each person.

Rizq includes all of the following: your wealth, health, lifespan, intelligence, access to resources, education, time, youth, beauty, and anything else that people receive without being able to choose. Simply put: the majority of types of privilege are part of the Rizq that Allah has given to some of his servants, and not others.

This is confirmed by the following verses of the Quran:

Say, “O Allah, Owner of Sovereignty, You give sovereignty to whom You will and You take sovereignty away from whom You will. You honor whom You will and You humble whom You will. In Your hand is [all] good. Indeed, You are over all things competent.

You cause the night to enter the day, and You cause the day to enter the night; and You bring the living out of the dead, and You bring the dead out of the living. And You give provision to whom You will without account.”

(Surah Aale-Imraan 3:26-27, Saheeh International Translation)

These verses confirm that all things we receive are from Allah and part of our Rizq. Wealth, power, authority, honor, social status, there are all part of our Rizq. Allah gives it to whom He wills and withholds it from whom He wills.

Complaining About Allah

As a result, complaining about privilege can, in many if not most situations, become complaining about Allah and his distribution of Rizq. It can become complaining about Qadar, malcontent and jealousy for the gifts Allah has given other creations.

The problem with modern theories is that they are divorced from the Divine. Allah is not factored into the equation and this causes people to take up opinions, theories, and ideas that are insulting to Allah, and unislamic. The solution is to become grounded in Islamic Theology and choose one’s words and actions accordingly.

What to do instead

Instead of complaining about the Rizq Allah has given others, a Muslim must do the following:

  1. Accept that this world is a test and never going to be perfect. Some people will always have a worldly advantage over others.
  2. Accept that your situation is your test, and you need to deal with it accordingly. It can change with effort, dua and hard work, but not with complaining.
  3. Believe that this world is temporary and the Afterlife is our priority. Give preference to preparing for the Afterlife over trying to make this life perfect. Don’t spend so much time arguing about why things are unfair in this world, that you forget to pile up good deeds for the next world.
  4. If something is a genuine Islamic concern, possible to change, and within your abilities to do so, then work on changing it from within an Islamic framework with Allah’s Help.

Our generation spends too much time fighting and arguing on social media over why this person has this advantage or that advantage. We need to stop these petty fights and focus instead on what matters: our relationship with Allah and our preparations for the life to come.

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